Ékèlé díké nà ñkè ómèrè, òmékwá ọ́zọ́.
When the mighty is praised for what they have done, they will do more.
— Igbo Proverb.

This proverb, while simple in tone, carries deep insight into human nature and the transformative force of gratitude. It reveals that appreciation is an energy that fuels generosity, motivation, and continued excellence.

The Psychology of Praise

In Igbo language, the term “díké” which can be used to refer to ‘strong one’ or ‘capable one’, actually implies someone who has mastered strength, and it does not necessarily address a literal warrior figure alone. In this context, it refers to anyone who has acted with strength e.g a parent who sacrifices, a leader who protects, a friend who supports, or even the divine that sustains life.

When such a one is thanked for their deeds, the proverb reminds us that gratitude becomes an invitation for them to do even more. Praise nurtures the giver’s spirit. It tells them their efforts are seen, their contributions valued.

Gratitude, in this sense, can be a fuel. It acknowledges the cycle of giving and inspires its continuation.

Gratitude as a Catalyst for Abundance

The proverb’s wisdom extends beyond relationships, it is a law of abundance. What we appreciate grows. When we focus on what is good, we multiply it; when we neglect or scorn blessings, we diminish them.

A farmer who praises the earth tends it with care and reaps again. A community that honors its heroes raises new ones. Even the gods or cosmic forces, respond more generously to a thankful heart than to one that only complains.

Gratitude opens the door for more goodness to flow because it aligns our hearts with abundance rather than lack.

A Lesson for Modern Life

In our fast-paced, achievement-driven world, gratitude easily fades into the background. We celebrate milestones briefly and rush toward the next goal. Yet, this proverb invites us to slow down and give thanks, not only to others but also to life itself.

In leadership: When leaders appreciate their teams, morale and creativity rise.
In relationships: When we express genuine gratitude to loved ones, affection deepens and trust strengthens.
In personal growth: When we thank ourselves for progress, however small, we become more resilient and motivated to continue.

Gratitude transforms ordinary interactions into sacred exchanges of energy.

The Subtle Wisdom of Reciprocity

The proverb also captures a deeper truth about reciprocity, the underestimated principle that sustains all relationships. Praise completes the circle of giving. When someone gives, and we receive with gratitude, both parties are uplifted. It creates harmony, a mutual exchange of recognition and generosity.

The “díké” who is praised does so out of joy of being appreciated. For nothing replenishes strength like being seen and valued.

Final Reflection

“Ékèlé díké nà ñkè ómèrè, òmékwá ọ́zọ́” is not only about thanking others; it is a philosophy of life. Gratitude keeps the current of goodness flowing. It reminds us that appreciation is not the end of giving, it is the beginning of more.

So, praise the rain that fell yesterday, and tomorrow’s clouds will gather again. Thank the friend who helped once, and kindness will revisit you. Give thanks to life itself, and it will find new ways to bless you.

For the heart that gives thanks never runs dry. Yagazie!